I frequently get asked if I have social media, and I can understand why. Many clients would like to look at more photos, and more importantly, it gives them a sense of security that I am real and actively practicing before they send any tribute.
For me, female dominance is truly about living my life as a woman in the way that I want to, regardless of societal pressures. It's why I took a step back from full-time corporate to focus on a more fulfilling career, why I left a country that at the time many fellow countrymen declared as "the best country on earth." I have a history of making decisions that are right for me, even if most people think I am crazy, and those decisions paying off in the long run.
It seems to be a rule these days that you have to be on social media - but rules are only only as good as their enforcement, and buy-in. Social media to me, personally, feels very inauthentic. We all love a fun photo shoot here and there, but constantly being in a cycle of posing, editing and preening is exhausting and unpaid labour. I'm one of those people that goes on an entire holiday and annoyingly forgets to take more than a handful of photos, because I'm too busy living in the moment and enjoying myself.
I feel the same way about my practice. My joy is in living in the moment with you, the submissive, not constantly thinking about my next Instagram post. No shade at all to the amazing women who make it work on social media - one of my best friends, Goddess Jade, is a superstar at it. It's just not resonant with my practice, so I don't have any.
Not to mention, the internet hates sex workers. Every platform now has ridiculous restrictions, seemingly random banning practices, and thanks to the infinite wisdom of our government, the Online Safety Act is now also causing problems. While the legislation likely had good intent behind it, it's very broadly drafted and it has resulted in even more policing of our completely legal work online. I didn't leave full time corporate to sign up for another form of daily, arbitrary scrutiny.
I hope that the intense amount of work it clearly took to create this site and my sister site, thedommesalon.com, will be assurance enough that I am real and I am active. If you see my advertisement within the first 5 pages of the Professional Mistresses directory, you can be assured that I am active - we have to manually promote our profiles to stay in the listings every couple of days.
Besides dear, I'm sure you can tell from my writing I'm a scrupulous and meticulous sort of person - if the day comes where I want to close up shop, I will just take the site down. So rest assured, you're safe with me.
Come and play, authentically, in the moment.
I frequently get asked if I have social media, and I can understand why. Many clients would like to look at more photos, and more importantly, it gives them a sense of security that I am real and actively practicing before they send any tribute.
For me, female dominance is truly about living my life as a woman in the way that I want to, regardless of societal pressures. It's why I took a step back from full-time corporate to focus on a more fulfilling career, why I left a country that at the time many fellow countrymen declared as "the best country on earth." I have a history of making decisions that are right for me, even if most people think I am crazy, and those decisions paying off in the long run.
It seems to be a rule these days that you have to be on social media - but rules are only only as good as their enforcement, and buy-in. Social media to me, personally, feels very inauthentic. We all love a fun photo shoot here and there, but constantly being in a cycle of posing, editing and preening is exhausting and unpaid labour. I'm one of those people that goes on an entire holiday and annoyingly forgets to take more than a handful of photos, because I'm too busy living in the moment and enjoying myself.
I feel the same way about my practice. My joy is in living in the moment with you, the submissive, not constantly thinking about my next Instagram post. No shade at all to the amazing women who make it work on social media - one of my best friends, Goddess Jade, is a superstar at it. It's just not resonant with my practice, so I don't have any.
Not to mention, the internet hates sex workers. Every platform now has ridiculous restrictions, seemingly random banning practices, and thanks to the infinite wisdom of our government, the Online Safety Act is now also causing problems. While the legislation likely had good intent behind it, it's very broadly drafted and it has resulted in even more policing of our completely legal work online. I didn't leave full time corporate to sign up for another form of daily, arbitrary scrutiny.
I hope that the intense amount of work it clearly took to create this site and my sister site, thedommesalon.com, will be assurance enough that I am real and I am active. If you see my advertisement within the first 5 pages of the Professional Mistresses directory, you can be assured that I am active - we have to manually promote our profiles to stay in the listings every couple of days.
Besides dear, I'm sure you can tell from my writing I'm a scrupulous and meticulous sort of person - if the day comes where I want to close up shop, I will just take the site down. So rest assured, you're safe with me.
Come and play, authentically, in the moment.
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